Right before David and Ian's ceremony, I was standing at the edge of the venue staring out at a New York Harbor that had vanished completely into fog, when Ian's mom walked up beside me. "We paid good money for that view, and now I can't see anything," she said, entirely cheerful about it. "But tell me: have you ever seen a happier couple? Be honest." She wasn't wrong, and that same unshakeable good mood ran through the entire wedding party all day, fog or no fog.


Later, going back through the audio of Ian saying his vows, I had to actually pause the recording before I ended up an emotional wreck at my own desk. It's easy to forget, in the middle of a wedding day, that the real job isn't just showing up with a camera — it's capturing the kind of joy a family gets to relive for decades. If David and Ian's people watch these photos back in twenty years and feel even half of what that day felt like, I've done my job.

 

A bearded groom in a dark suit pins a yellow rose boutonniere to his lapel at a wedding ceremony.
Bald man in suit with yellow boutonniere looks out window at Statue of Liberty on overcast day.
Yellow roses in a birch bark vase centerpiece flanked by lit candles on a white tablecloth.
Yellow gerbera daisies in amber glass bottle vase surrounded by lit candles on dark rustic table.
Man in blue suit reading handwritten notes on a small piece of paper.
Black and white photo of two people in formal attire holding hands at a wedding ceremony near a decorative table.
A man in a suit seen from behind with a hand resting on his shoulder wearing a gold wedding ring.
A tray of fresh shrimp cocktail on ice served at an elegant evening event.
Two men in suits sharing an emotional embrace during first dance at wedding reception.
Two grooms holding hands as wedding guests applaud in warmly lit reception venue.
Two grooms in suits celebrate joyfully holding hands at their wedding reception in a brick venue.
Engraved silver flask beside a fabric bag reading I Am Married To A Fantastic Man, wedding gift.
Couple shares romantic first dance at elegant wedding reception venue with string lights and guests seated at tables.
Three-tier wedding cake topped with fondant peas in a pod bearing initials, surrounded by warm candlelight.
Assorted fried snacks and hot dogs served in red checkered paper-lined baskets at a casual food event.
Two grooms share a fun cake smashing moment at their wedding reception near a white tiered cake.
Two men energetically dancing at a rustic wedding reception while guests watch and celebrate.
Guests dancing joyfully at a lively indoor wedding reception with warm string lights overhead.
Two wedding rings resting on men's dress shoes, one black oxford and one brown loafer, on a wooden floor.
Elegant dessert cups with ice cream and fresh berries served on white plates by candlelight at a dinner party.
Two men share a joyful embrace on a crowded wedding reception dance floor with guests celebrating behind them.